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when you home school the boys what will the girls be doing?
thanks!
shen
I really have no questions, whatever you want to share is great!
Sorry if thats insanely personal!
Sunscreen?
Twins running in the family?
Did you ever think you would be a mom of girls, after 4 boys? And do you get annoyed when you are out and people say, "Oh you finally got your girls!" Right in front of your precious boys:( (It happens to my friend and she gets so mad but doesn't say anything).
I just bought some Ezekial bread from TJ's today, so excited to try it, thanks for the tip!
Proud mama of 2 boys:)
Andrea
I just love the name Ozzie (I'm thinking I might name my baby that if I have a boy - If that's okay)
love and blessings from ga~erin
How many children do you think you will have total?
If you had to chose a career (besides being a mommy), what would it be?
What are the subjects you plan on homeschooling your children?
What annoys you the most?
Most annoying comment you get?
I am sure I could find more but I am too exausted to think of more, lol.
Julie
I just started reading your blog last week....so I'm sort of a lurker but de-lurking because I'm lovin' your blog and I have questions!
How did you handle each transition from one child to the next, and which number was hardest to adjust to? My second child (a boy) is a month old, and my first child (also a boy) is 23 months, and I am finding that it's been difficult to transition because my oldest is having a hard time (loves the baby but is acting out like NEVER before). I'd love to hear how you did it and what did/didn't work, especially because my hubs and I are hoping for a nice, big family as well.
Also, I was reading your birth stories but there aren't any in-depth posts about the details on the twins' birth! Do you plan to post their birth story, too?
How did you decide you want to homeschool in the first place? (I am, by the way, fully supportive of it as I am a homeschool graduate and I loooved it - we plan to homeschool our kiddos, too.)
How did you get into photography? What kind of camera do you recommend? I love photography but my photos are usually taken with my iPhone - in other words, the quality is TERRIBLE! I am planning on asking for a beautiful, somewhat professional camera for my birthday but I need suggestions. :)
I know I have more but I've asked PLENTY already ;)
** What ciriculum will you guys be using?
** Favorite bible verse :)
~Elyse
I know you shop at Goodwill...do you just go all the time, because I NEVER find good stuff there. Any tips?
Any tips on picky eaters? It seems like all your kids eat so well. I have one super picky, carb only eater. It kills me :)
:) Jaysi
Are your children good sleepers? What do I do to make mine good sleepers?
PS- What is your favorite color?
How do you do frugal shopping for the girls? we love Pedi peds too but two pairs each time is so much.
What are some really special treats for the kids- i.e. place you go or eating out etc.
How do you handle siblings that bicker with each other or pick at each other?
I would love to hear your answer as we also do not do a whole lot of dairy but have an almost 2 year old. he is on a multivitamin and I have a calcium supplement I got also.
also what supplements do you give your kids and in what form?
And, I don't drink soy milk either, and I have a reason, I'm curious if it's the same reason (it inhibits the body from absorbing minerals).
I have 11 month old identical girls. Curious to know how in the world you get your girls to sleep in the same room??(I know they sleep in the same crib! Amazing!).
I read way back (I think when one of your girls was taken to the hospital) that they don't take bottles. Mine neither! I think breastfeeing is WONDERFUL and thankful that I'm able to do it. With bf-ing twins, how do you find balance in your life? (Even the most devoted mom has to have a little time away :-)
Also curious about the sunscreen.
I'd also love to know more about your faith and your story.
Thanks for sharing on your blog -- I love reading it and seeing the joy that your family brings you.
First how are you feeling since your accident? I see you are wearing both babies, is your back better or are you just not letting it stop you?
Are you going to have any more kids? And if so, have you ever considered adoption or foster care?
Do you go to MOPS?
How many loads of laundry do you do a week?
Thanks for the chance to ask some questions. I hope you're able to get to them all because this is a lot of questions!
I'm also wondering about eating a balanced diet. As silly as it sounds, I can't figure out how to make a meal plan with a balanced, healthy diet. I'm sure you have some wonderful ideas! :)
i might normally think this question is a little personal. however, you have been pretty open about the lack-of-job situation and even asked in a tweet last week what we all wanted you to blog about and you listed "money" as one of the options. you have been open about spending $300+ each week at the grocery store.
My question deals with money - in hard times like this (hubby not working much, 6 kids, etc.) how do you afford to pay a mortgage, much less pay bills, buy groceries and other necessities, as well as "extras" (etsy bonnets, etsy bows, pediped shoes, etc)? money is tight at our house right now and we don't even have kids, so i would love to hear how you do it!! :)
thanks again for doing a post like this. what a great way to connect with your readers that adore you and your family!
-sarah
What is your favorite thing to do alone with your husband?!
I'd also love to know why you don't use sunscreen and what you use in place of it, if anything?
Also, How do you budget? What system works? We don't have children and find a budget, even with just a house and pets, can be challenging!
What is your favorite bible verse?
If you were blessed with Five Million Dollars, how would you use it?
* Do you sew/knit/ scrapbook...basically any crafty things?
* And just for the sake of it,do you like skittles? :)
I would love to know what books you recommend about nutrition, health, baby food.
Also, what kind of camera do you have? Would you recommend it and why?
Where did you learn so much about photography? Would you share some favorite tips/learning websites?
You are going to be very busy answering all these questions...God bless!!
Thanks a bunch!
great blog : )
few ?'s if that's ok.......
1. what is your day to day outfit?
2. what do you wear when going out with your husband? i know you mentioned you don't like wearing what everyone else is wearing.
3. any favorite jewelry?
4. favorite place to vacation with AND without the kids?
5. i've seen in a couple posts you've mentioned your "2 dads" did you mean your dad and your father in law?
6. are you planning on living where you are indefinitely?
that's plenty of questions i'm sure!
thanks for doing this ; )
What would be your top ten snacks for lunchboxes on a budget? I'm am always trying to cut out unhealthy food from my children's diet. Sometimes my mind goes blank and we need to get the creative flow happening.
Thanks Bec
I remember the last time you did this you revealed your age and I remember thinking how young you are. It amazes me that you are so strong in your convictions (especially with diet) and you're so well researched. Do you ever wonder if you're doing the right thing?
I think of you every time I feed my almost 9 month old. She's eaten just about everything on the planet - fruits/veggies/meats/starches and every time I feed her something other than avocado I think about your post on how the girls' teeth tell you what they're ready for. Really? How did you come up with that? My baby is HUNGRY and I can't imagine her not eating, I'm sure she can't either.
You also mentioned last time you did this that you don't wash your hair for a week at a time. You've inspired me to go a few days between washings and I really like it. My hair isn't curly like yours (but it is red) and I wonder if you ever have grease or flakes to deal with.
How did you and Paul meet? What's the glue that holds you together (other than kids and faith)?
And my biggest curiousity - where do you find the time? I have two children (9 months and 3 years), a blog, and a house. Maybe I'm just lazy and you're super mom but I can't for the life of me keep up. I'm always doing laundry, dishes, changing diapers, reading stories, writing posts and my place is still a disaster. How do you do it? Do you sleep? You're the most active mom I know and you seem to have it all under control. I know that we all post the great pictures, where everyone smiles, and no one has perfect children that never back talk but yours seem so story book. Really - what's your secret!?
I love your blog, I check it every day and I've been reading since your pregnancy with the girls. Keep up the amazing work!
One more question... I have a son who does not drink cows milk, I put him on soy. I know you are not keen on soy but what would be an alternative for a child. He is 3. Here in Australia rice milk states on the cartoon not to be used as a milk substitute for children under five. So what do you think...????
thanks Bec
Thanks!
What camera do u use?
I just got my first DSLR (canon rebel)...and I'm a little clueless about lenses, etc. Any tips?
My weakness is indoor photos...I don't have the funds to get any kind of backdrop,etc...any tips there?
I admire you for tackling all these questions! I love your blog! and love your {grins} :)
My question was: with 6 kids, 3 of them very small, how do you find time to give each child attention? Do you ever get to the end of a day and realized that one of the kids didn't get much from you that day?
Also how do you discipline the kids?
Just one more...you sometimes do the "what you are like now" posts for the little kids, can you do some for the older boys? I'm interested to "meet" them and find out what they are interested in and their personalities!
Okay, if any are too personal, please please disregard!!
I would like to know about:
*Sunscreen use- really? You don't use it??
*How hard/easy was it to breastfeed twins?
*are there any specific books you would reccomend on nutrition?
*if you could tell someone to read 5 books, what would they be & why?
*If you could advise someone on 3 changes to make in their lives, what would they be?
*do you use coconut oil?
*what would you do with 4 heads of roasted garlic?
*how DO you budget a family of 8? (Not a negative comment- looking for advice here!!)
*do you have a good smoothie recipe?
*whats your favorite item of clothing?
*how do you & your hubby deal with money? Eg: If he is the breadwinner, do you feel able to spend on something frivilous, or just for you? (Getting married next year, will be SAHM eventually, worried about how I'll feel without "pin money").
*favourite color?
*wolly socks: yeay or nay?
Love your blog, don't always agree with your personal beliefs, but love your strong voice & spirit!!
Keep up the great work!!!
if you could visit 1 state & 1 country which state&country would you chose and why?
I loove it!!
Also, how do you go about weaning your babies?
I want to know about the sunscreen. I don't like to wear sunscreen because it makes my face break out and other skin sort of itchy and irritated, and I would LOVE to have a valid reason that I can give people! :)
Will you keep us updated on the homeschooling as you begin? I'm a teacher and homeschooling is one of my "secret obsessions"...it just sounds like so much fun! I'm really looking forward to the option of homeschooling my own kids, when the time comes!
i also just started selling wildtree. which sells really yummy grapeseed oils. if you're ever interested let me know.
i too would love to know how you budget/plan for the adorable pediped shoes. or you have one super great goodwill!! :0) thanks for all your time into this!!
I was just curious about the sunscreen (like everyone else seems to be! ha). I have skin problems that are irritated with "regular" sunscreen, so I use natural sunscreen. So I was just curious if you avoid all sunscreen, or just the ones filled with chemicals? I am always looking for something new to use, so I look forward to hearing what you use!! Thanks,
Sarah
How are you going to answer all this questions? lol, good luck ;)
What does a post-6-babies tummy look like?
Why have you decided to home school?
Do the boys have many school friends?
Have the boys had any trouble with school?
Do you ever wish you could have a career?
Do you believe in contraception?
Did you always plan to have so many children?
Do you worry about Ozzie not being looked after as well as you would look after him, when he goes away for weeks?
Do you worry about your husband being faithful?
Do you ever wake up in the morning and just feel like you can't face the day with all those kids to feed and so much housework?
Do you have a tumble dryer?
Does ironing take you many hours?
What do you think about when you do all that ironing and housework?
What does it feel like to allow your mind to focus on your children?
I wish I could have lots of kids and give myself over to raising them as my main job in life. You and I look almost identical (except my hair is a different colour) and we are the same age and I can't help wondering what life would have been like if I had chosen your path instead of mine, and I must admit I do really envy you. Your path seems so much clearer. Well done on doing such a great job.
do you make any money from your blog?
is your house decorated to a high standard?
do you like to have your kids wear clothes from certain brands or do you dress them in just whatever you like?
do you like your kids to look good and stay clean - or are you happy to let them get dirty and wear whatever?
do you like your kids to get creative making a big mess (so long as they tidy it afterwards), or do you like to not make mess at all?
have you ever kissed/ dated/ been with anyone other than your husband (before you two got together course)
how long have you been married?
do you and your hubbie have rows?
how do you feel about kids and tv/ commercials/ computer games/ playstations etc?
do you encourage your kids to read books?
are your boys outdoor/active types or busy indoor types?
do you find each child was born with a distinctive personality and are all very different? - or do you find their personalities are more influenced by upbringing and other influences?
which child do you think looks most like you?
are you really excited about having twin girls when they are teenagers?
what does your husband do for a living?
what do you do when you have time to yourself?
how do you take the whole family on holiday?
Then as many wat to know how do you manage to buy all the organic food and those gorgeous clothes. I am a student and dont have much money and I cant afford all organic food! :(
Why did your husband get back so early, I thought they were staying longer!!
OK that was it! I am excited to read the answers!! :)
Have a great rest of the week!
(PS..sorry I don't know much about photography and the correct terminology so I hope I explained what I'm trying to do well enough)
How do you keep your energy up? Is it from your diet? And, if you do need a little extra push, what do you eat/drink/do?
Thanks so much! Blessings to you and your family...
Good luck w/all the questions!
thanks
nicole
Also, I'd love to know more about your extended family- your parents and any brothers and sisters? Are you close to them?
How did you and your husband meet?
How do you keep the cost down on healthy eating? (organic is so expensive in my small town!)
Laurie in Minnesota
Laurie in Minnesota
What stroller(s) do you use and recommend?
What is the one specific item a new mom shouldn't dare leave off of her registry?
I would love to know if you create a weekly sort of budget? I'm also a sahm and sometimes it's difficult to stick to a budget without using credit cards, etc.
How do you manage to have such beautifully dressed kiddos?!
Thanks,
Kara
Thanks for taking the time to answer ALL these questions!
Do you have any help in the form of parents/grandparents that babysit the kids so you can go to Dr. appts/grocery store/out with your husband?
This may be too personal-but do you do "natural family planning"/prevention or just see what the Lord brings you?
Do you/your family ever eat junk food or candy?
Do you like decorating your house or do you have a passion for other things besides that?
How was your public school experience?
Are you friends with anyone else that has more than 4 kids?
What are some other children's names that you love/didn't use?
Have a wonderful day and so looking forward to all your answers! :)
Can you give like a "sample" of what a day in your life is like? What times you get up, what the kids have for breakfast, lunch snack etc. ! It would be interesting to see with so many kiddos!
You are wonderful and I love your blog!
Care to share your thoughts on sugar? I am curious about your views on raw/brown/white sugar etc.
I know you take a number of different supplements/minerals, I am just wondering is there a "decent" multi-vitamin that you would recommend? I would like to go to a holistic chiropractor in the future, but as of right now there aren't any in my town and cost is an issue as well.
It seems I always have questions for you popping into my head but of course those are the only ones I can come up with right now. :)
Love your blog! Thanks!
we have 4 daughters under the age of 6 and are in the process of adopting 2 young children right now. i used to just politely smile and try to move on, but i've realized that it is an opportunity to share that children are NOT a burden. all girls are NOT a burden {yes, i WILL continue to believe that even in their teenage years}
so, despite it being out of my comfort zone for strangers, i've started saying things like:
yes, my hands certainly are full. full hands, full heart!!
and
sure we're busy, but it is so much fun!
and
actually, we feel so blessed to have all these girls!
do you have "standard" answers?!
So, when do your kids start eating hummus? At the bean stage?
Do you have a good recipe, or do you just buy at the store?
Babywearing: do you get sore? We have 3 month old twins and if I wear one (and we have invested in a Beco, which is ergonomically good), I get so sore (especially if I'm "doing stuff" like folding laundry- any suggestions?
Thanks!
Nancy
What kind of bathing soaps and lotions do you use on your children?
Thanks
Thanks.